How Survival Instinct & Comfort Zones Screwed Us Up

How Survival Instinct & Comfort Zones Screwed Us Up

Human beings are wired with a survival instinct.  Some call it our reptilian brains and many are quick to reference Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs as evidence. There has been a lot of more recent neuroscience to further affirm this human need for survival at all costs....
Why Waiting Should Not Be So Challenging

Why Waiting Should Not Be So Challenging

I so dislike waiting on anything. Whether waiting in line or waiting for an appointment, the simple fact that I am waiting drives me absolutely bonkers! It’s a shortcoming of which I am well aware. In an attempt to overcome this personal flaw, many years ago, I...
No More Self-Defeat – You Belong on the Field

No More Self-Defeat – You Belong on the Field

One of the recurring themes throughout my life is the concept of self-defeat. I share exactly how this manifested throughout my whole life in Listen Up, Kids, so I won’t belabor the point here. I bring it up mostly to introduce the next topic in our Year of...

New Year Goals In View Step Two: Look Ahead to Next Year

Last week, I introduced the first of a three-step process I use throughout December to help me reflect, ponder and plan for the coming New Year. That first step can really seem more like a “pause” than a step because it involves taking time to look back....
How My Daughter’s Baptism Revealed My Greatest Hope

How My Daughter’s Baptism Revealed My Greatest Hope

My second daughter was baptized in March of 2008. The pastor asked my wife and I to pick a scripture we wanted to read for the day. He said it didn’t have to relate to baptism and it could be more about Stella and our hopes for her life. It proved to be a bigger...
The Origin Story of 1Glories Found in Listen Up, Kids

The Origin Story of 1Glories Found in Listen Up, Kids

How did we get here? When did we get so far off course? Did we ever really know where we were going or why we set out for this place? These are all relevant questions… that we often ask much later in the process that we would prefer – but it’s never too late. I guess...
The Legacy of a Mom Who Raised Men – Honoring my Mother

The Legacy of a Mom Who Raised Men – Honoring my Mother

Imagine a life where you were in constant fear of something. Imagine that being a big part of your legacy! Whether it’s a matter of where you are going to find the money to pay for a tank of gas or whether it is believing the gunman you think is holding your child...
Looking for Lost Treasure? God’s Looking for You!

Looking for Lost Treasure? God’s Looking for You!

Chapter 19, verse 10 of Luke says, “For the Son of Man is come to seek and to save that which was lost.” It reminds me when I was much younger – when my brother and many of my friends really liked to watch the Indiana Jones movies. They loved the...
Why Yes, Real Men Can Have Pretty Toenails

Why Yes, Real Men Can Have Pretty Toenails

  Am I a real man? My toenails have been pink for about a week now. Not just pink, but a girly, translucent glittery pink! And if that’s grounds for removal of my hypothetical man-card, please take it! I didn’t do the painting, mind you. As you may know, I have...
#Praylist – I Hope You Dance, No Regrets

#Praylist – I Hope You Dance, No Regrets

Sitting at a table on the stage of the Grand Ole Opry, seated next to my wife and about three dozen banking industry peers, I could not help but consider the sense of injustice in my heart. My peers and I all were partners with the host company who provided us with a...